Sharon Flake is a three-time Coretta Scott King Award-winning author, the YWCA Racial Justice Award-winner and has been named on numerous prestigious book lists. She has written nine novels, many short stories, plays and a picture book. She writes about African-American youth, focusing on difficult topics. She is a self-described "inner city baby at heart" and often includes that narrative in her work. She loves to speak with young people, so if you have a chance to attend a session, don't miss out! You can find out more at www.sharongflake.com
Who Am I Without Him? is a collection of short stories about girls and their relationships with boys, how they see themselves, how boys think about girls, and what might truly be important. I think we all can identify with at least one story in the collection, and have known girls who represent other characters as well. One of the stories that stood out for me was the last story titled, A Letter to My Daughter. It's about an absentee father who decides to write a letter because he feels guilty and he would like to leave something of value to her so he decides to leave her his knowledge of boys. He says, "'Cause it ain't just that girls don't pick the right guy. Shoot. They can't even recognize the wrong ones when they come along." p209. He then lists 10 things girls should look for and avoid. It's a powerful book that makes you think about your relationships, choices, and how you see yourself, whether you are a girl or a boy. Who am I Without Him? will generate powerful discussions in your Socratic Seminar and get students really thinking about relationships and themselves.
"He turns away from me and starts walking. But he don't get far - I don't let him. I apologize."p 3
"I try not to sweat Raheem when he gets a little rough with me or says he's coming over my house and don't show up." p 3
"Raheem's hand smashes the words back into my mouth.'Girl! Don't make me...'"p 5.
"A boy like him can get any girl he wants. He ain't gotta take no stuff off nobody. 'Sorry,' I say, thinking 'bout how jealous girls be when they see me with him."p 5
"I won't never win no beauty contest. But my body, well that's something else." p5
"The redhead looks back my way, shakes her head, and just like that, I feel dirty - like somebody rolled me in chicken fat and left me outside for the birds to snack on."p6
"I lean over and stare out the window and see the readhead standing on the corner with Raheem."p7
"Tonight, when I see him, I'm gonna... I'm gonna... make him something nice to eat. I think. And act like I ain't seen nothing at all." p9 Why do you think that she's decided not to say anything? Is this a good idea? What would you advise her to do? What is the difference between how Raheem sees himself and how she sees herself? What messages account for these self-perceptions?
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